Birthdays shouldn't come with a side of stress.

When special moments arrive, they should be filled with joy, not tension.

But without a clear plan, even the happiest occasions turn into:

  • Awkward scheduling conflicts
  • Uncomfortable surprises when someone shows up uninvited
  • Kids caught in the middle of parental stress

You deserve better. So do your kids.

The Celebrations & Milestones Parenting Plan Bundle gives you attorney-drafted templates that answer the hard questions before the day arrives.

Attorney-Drafted. Fully Editable. Instant Download.

Do any of these sound familiar?

01

You're scrolling through your phone on your child's birthday morning, firing off texts and waiting for responses—because there's still no plan.

02

Your child asks, "Will you both be there?"—and you don't have an answer

03

You're blindsided by who shows up (or doesn't) to graduations, school dances, or special events

04

"Can I have them an extra day?" becomes an awkward ask instead of a simple yes or no

05

A simple scheduling conflict turns into a full-blown argument

What's included?

Five attorney-drafted templates that  give you structure when emotions run high.

01

Celebrating Milestones

Set expectations for graduations, religious ceremonies, school dances, and every other special moment.

02

Birthdays – Children

No more scrambling. No more tension. Just a clear plan that lets you both celebrate.

03

Birthdays – Parents

Clear guidelines so your child isn't stuck planning, choosing sides, or feeling guilty on anyone's birthday.

04

Extra Time Requests

Define the process for how to ask, how much notice is required, and how to respond.

05

Makeup Parenting Time

Set clear terms for if and how missed parenting time gets rescheduled.

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Why Parents Love This Bundle

  • Helps preserve the joy in milestones—without the tension that usually comes with them
  • Sets expectations once, eliminating the need for constant back-and-forth
  • Covers the gray areas most courts overlook
  • Reduces last-minute decisions that spiral into arguments
  • Saves time, stress, and thousands in legal fees

Hiring a lawyer to draft similar provisions could cost more than $1,500.

You pay just $200—and get all five templates, ready to use today.

How It Works

Download Instantly
All five templates arrive in your inbox right after purchase.

Edit Easily
Use Word or Google Docs with the included instructions to customize each template.

Use Anywhere
Incorporate into your existing parenting plan or bring to mediation or court.

Adapt As Needed
Update over time to reflect changes in your life or family circumstances.

Real Scenario: 
The Missed Birthday Dinner

A mother planned a birthday dinner for her son. Invites sent. Cake ordered. Everything set.

Then his father showed up two hours early—unannounced—and took him to a completely different party.

Their son was confused. The parents didn't speak for weeks. The birthday? Ruined.

Here's what could have been different:

With the Child Birthday and Extra Time Request templates, they would've had one plan. Clear expectations. No surprises. No hurt feelings.

Just a calm, joyful celebration their son actually got to enjoy.

That's the difference planning makes.

FAQs

What is included in this Parenting Plan Bundle?

This bundle includes 5 attorney-drafted parenting plan templates focused specifically on coordinating celebrations and milestones, such as birthdays and special occasions. Each template is designed to help parents create clear, fair, and flexible agreements that minimize last-minute conflicts and ensure your child enjoys meaningful, stress-free time with both parents.

How do I know which templates will apply to my situation?

Each template includes guidance on when it’s appropriate to use, along with real-life examples and tips for customizing the language to fit common celebrations and milestones, such as planning special family events, and managing travel logistics for birthdays and important occasions.

Is this bundle legally binding?

The templates are written using attorney-drafted language designed to meet general family law standards. However, to become legally binding, they must be included in a parenting plan filed with and approved by your court or incorporated into a mediated or stipulated agreement. We recommend having a local attorney review your final plan to ensure compliance with your state's laws.

Can I use this bundle if I already have a parenting plan?

Absolutely. Many parents use this bundle to update or strengthen an existing plan, especially as children grow, schedules evolve, and new challenges like coordinating celebrations, milestones, and family traditions arise.

Are the templates customizable?

Yes! Each template is fully editable and available in both Word and Google Docs formats, allowing you to tailor the provisions to suit your specific parenting arrangement.

How do I access the templates after purchase?

You’ll receive an instant download link via email. All templates are provided in editable Word and Google Docs formats, along with instructions and guidance for each.

Can this bundle help with mediation or collaborative divorce?

Yes! These templates are ideal for mediation sessions or collaborative divorce settings, as they provide a neutral, structured way to discuss and resolve key parenting issues.

Is this BUNDLE for high-conflict or parallel parenting situations?

Yes. The templates in this bundle are especially helpful in high-conflict situations, including those related to coordinating celebrations and milestones. Each template is designed to set clear expectations, reduce misunderstandings, and minimize conflict during these important and often sensitive moments.

Can I use these templates in any state?

The templates are designed to be broadly applicable across U.S. jurisdictions, using language and formats commonly accepted in most family courts. You should still review your state's specific requirements and consult an attorney to ensure compliance.

about me

Renee E. Turner

 

I’m Renee E. Turner, a family law attorney with over 13 years of experience helping parents reduce conflict and protect their children during life transitions.

I created this bundle after seeing too many clients struggle with what should be joyful moments. Birthdays, holidays, and milestones don’t need to be battlegrounds. With a thoughtful plan, they can be shared respectfully, even if communication is limited.

This bundle helps you honor your child’s most meaningful moments—with calm, not conflict.

Now is the time to take the next step toward a more structured co-parenting future. 

Get the tools, guidance, and clarity you need to create a parenting plan that supports your child(ren) and reduces stress for everyone involved.

Instant Download. Attorney-Drafted. Fully Editable.